I focus on three things in the session: 1. Attitude, 2. How well he did his chores and normal expectation, and 3. How well he handled non-routine items. For attitude I am reviewing his attitude towards me. For chores and expectations I take into consideration whether or not he performed all his chores and routine expectations, were they completed timely, and did they meet my expectations. For non-routine items, I am reviewing how he handled himself with unexpected or random situations.  He obeys me and I am in charge of him but that does not mean I have to tell him how to handle everything.  He should anticipate what I want and do the right thing.

For every session he is spanked a minimum of 60 times.  It may be more than 60 but it will never be less. He knows this.  The intensity of each spank will vary depending on how good or bad his behavior was for the item I am speaking about. For good behavior, I will give a light playful spank with the riding crop and will usually reward him by rubbing it over his ass, thighs, and between his legs.  For things to improve on, he will be given a moderate spank and for disobedience or items that I am displeased with, he will receive a hard stinging spank (sometimes more than one).  I start off with good to moderate things and progress toward the moderate to disobedient items so that the spanks get progressively harder.

I start off with a general statement of how his behavior has been, which sets the tone for the discipline session.. It would be something like, ‘Slave, you have been very good and I am pleased with how you are serving or obeying me’ or Slave, you have done good serving and obeying me but there are things to improve on’ or ‘Slave, I am not pleased with your behavior.’  The statement is followed by the first slap of the riding crop.  The intensity of the slap depends on how good or bad Tom’s behavior has been. I purposely refer to him as slave and I try to emphasize his obedience and how it is pleasing or not pleasing me.  These little details help elevate my authority over him and push him deeper into submission.

The next two or three spanks relate to the three major areas I focus on, which are mentioned at the beginning of this section.  It will be something like, ‘your attitude has been very good,’ (slap with some rubbing), ‘You did an o.k. job with your chores, but we need to review a few things’  ( harder slap), and ‘my car oil light has been on for several days, you need to take care of that’ (slap).  The remaining three or four spanks can be used to expand on the general statements.  I will talk about what he needs to improve on for chores, or specific items that I am displeased with, or maybe things that I am happy with.

This part of the session varies depending on my mood and how good or bad his behavior is.  There will be spanking and rubbing as I talk through the different things.  As noted above, I may spank him more than 60 times.  I don’t necessarily make all the general statements first and then go into details.  For example, I will make a general statement about his attitude and then discuss the details about it before moving onto his chores.  However, if there is not much to talk about then I will just make the general attitude statement and move right onto chores.  If he had a bad week, I may jump right to all the things that require correction and punishment and not even talk about the other items.   If he really pissed me off, then he might get 60 or more hard spanks for the one item that pissed me off and then we are done.  If he has been exceptionally good, then it’s all playful spanks and rubbing. I may reserve the last few spanks for new future expectations and make the spanks a little harder to emphasize the importance of his obedience.  If he is in a position where I can reach his cock, sometimes I will hold it or his balls while I talk and spank, squeezing it at certain times to emphasize key points.

When I am done with the spanking, I will recap things that he has to improve on and make him repeat it.  I will issue punishments if needed.  Punishments can also be given during the session when the infraction is being discussed. and I may also spend a few minutes talking about expectations or new rules or chores for the upcoming week.  I have his undivided attention so it is a good time for this.  I usually end up adding a few more spanks while I talk about these things

When we are finished he stands up and I will pull up his panties Again, I think by me doing this it mentally elevates my authority over him adds to his submissive state.  Then he will kneel and kiss my feet and thank me for disciplining me. He will also tell me that he will continue to serve me as best he can and will improve (if applicable) on his performance.  He will do this every session, even if he is harshly disciplined.  It is important to leave the session on a positive note. He will remain kneeling until I dismiss him or give further direction.

Usually after the session I will either have him pamper me with a massage or pleasure me orally or both.  When I am sitting and he is kneeling before me it is just so easy to spread open my legs and push his head between them-I love that! I make it a rule not to touch him after a discipline session.  The focus is all on me.