It was decided that my husband would no longer be allowed to penetrate and fuck me effective January 1st a few years back.  He would now be focused on kissing me passionately during lovemaking and eating my pussy, as well as submitting to facesitting, queening, mouth dildo training, golden/brown showers and feminine orgasms into his mouth. Instead of him fucking me, I would now fuck him in the ass using the strap-on.  My husband was placed into extended chastity (using a CB3000 cage) to build up his semen load and ensure compliance with my wishes. He was told that he would be allowed periodic ejaculations/releases, using non-traditional sex methods, under my control.  I informed him that he would remain in chastity faithful to me for our marriage harmony and his future development.  I made him sign an agreement that he understood the terms and that this was not infidelity, since I was not hiding anything from him.

I listened carefully to him. I said to him that I did not think he was that desperate to be released. He repeated that he was desperate. I said that if he were desperate then he would be begging, and that he should beg to show his sincerity and also to please me as I liked seeing him begging at my feet.  I said that I would think about it while he begged.

So he dutifully took my foot in his hand, covered it in kisses while mumbling please Miss may I be released, please (kiss kiss) please. I told him how lovely it was, stroked his head a bit and let him beg and grovel for a few minutes.

Then I took a handful of his hair in my hand and twisted his face up and brought my face close to his. I said that I had thought about it, and the answer was…..no. No he may not be released. He could have 20 minutes with it off in a supervised shower to make sure he and the device was clean and to apply some healing creme and then it goes back on.

While he was there, on his knees at my feet, I thought this was the ideal moment to tell him that from now on, all of the housework and laundry was something that he should be taking care of. He already does all the yardwork and gardening and of course I set him chores around the house. But we have shared the day to day housework and the laundry and ironing. From now on though, he was to do it all. I was not going to designate any chores anymore, because he was going to do it all. Of course I can still tell him things I want doing especially.

You see being a slave is not all bells and whistles. Its a lot of ironing, mopping, hoovering and loading and unloading of washing machines. Just because you are good at kissing feet and arse does not make you a good submissive.

I told him that any reluctance or complaints would be met with swift and harsh punishment that he would absolutely not enjoy. Not like the erotic spankings I give him several times a week.

For what it’s worth, my thoughts are that the starting point for chastity should always be 24/7. All other things being equal, the male should not have any choice in the matter, all the control being with the Female.

My cage has been securely on without a second of release for the last three weeks and their is no end in sight, with the rule when it went on that she will determine when it comes off, and I am not to ask