Not only did Tara’s husband address me as ma’am, he bowed his head and welcomed me with a curtsey. Walking into the coffee shop I wondered with a secret smile if any one noticed the curtsey. When the waitress came to take our order I asked for a soft drink and a salad. When the waitress looked at Tara’s husband, he looked confused. At that moment I realized that he was either looking for my permission to order or for me to order for him. In front of the waitress I asked if his mistress allowed him to order for him self, or if she ordered for him. The response was that she usually orders for me. For one thing I learned that it felt empowering just being in the company of a submissive man. I enjoyed the respect. I enjoyed the way he addressed me as ma’am. I enjoyed the way he was quick on his feet to pull out a chair. Most of all I enjoyed the fact that he was so very attentive to me. When an attractive girl walked by our table he didn’t lift his eyes for even a second. Corner time is also effective because it is a simple way of letting a man know exactly who is boss in the home, and this is a reminder that men need from time to time. Men want to know that their wife is in control, and corner time is a way for a wife to assert her authority in a simple no nonsense manner. She invited a couple of us to watch it in the private area of the studio. Tara’s husband set up the machine, he made popcorn, and poured wine for each of us. As we curled up in a comfortable position to watch the movie, I thought that Tara’s husband would do the same. Instead he took a stance behind us with his hands politely held behind his back. Unless one of us needed something he remained standing in that posture for the entire length of the movie. Tara was more than a mistress wife. Tara had become more of a female supremacist. Her husband was not allowed to sit on the furniture in the living room. When they were together, alone, he sat by her feet. On occasions like this with several girls in the room he understood his requirement was to stand. As the movie played on I actually felt sorry for her him. An hour into the movie I could see how he was fidgeting with the discomfort of being on his feet in the same position. At one point I asked for more popcorn just so he could have a little break from his discomfort. On the other hand if Tara caught him fidgeting she would give him a ‘look’ and a waive of her fingers. That simple look from Tara had an amazing effect on this man. You could see that he truly feared her. I have believed in matriarchy and female superiority since I was too young to know these words. I now for many years have been the head of a female led family; my wonderful, fully domesticated and devoutly submitted husband From they were small they have heard me telling their father what to do, reminding him sternly, reprimanding him. They also at times when it just came natural saw me slapping him in the face or on his clothed bottom. They always knew that I made most decisions, that I had the final say in all matters and that their father in most matters had no say at all. As they grew up I spoke with them about gender roles, matriarchy, male immaturity, female superiority and all these things in a way they at their age at the time could comprehend. They never saw or hear about their father wearing chastity device and they never saw or were informed of him being caned or strapped but they knew when he was grounded and when he was sent to bed early as punishment. To them there is nothing strange or mysterious in me being in charge and their father having to do as I say, it is for them the most natural thing in the world and they seem all three to have fully grasped and embraced the matriarch values and outlook on life. The girls are eager to discuss female supremacy with me and they try to view everything they come across in school and the news and other places from a matriarchal viewpoint. From our discussions but also from many of the essays the girls have written at school I can see that the matriarchal viewpoint is always important to them and they use every opportunity to point out how wrong things always go in a society led by men and the primitive and childish masculine values. Now the oldest girl and the boy are teens it will not worry me if they one day should hear the sounds of the strap or cane and their father’s bawling from the bedroom; surely they will understand that if I punish him that way it is because he deserves it. I knew he would have to be trained, no matter how much a man wants it, no matter how devoted he is. Every man needs to be trained if the relatonship has any chance of making it. Still, I had to be sure that we where starting off on the same page with the same goals for our marriage. Once that was done it was just a matter of putting in some hard work and getting him properly trained. I am much more interested in obedience born of a devotion to me. And his dedication to make this the best femdom marriage possible. My husband does not fear any punishment I choose for him to endure. Knowing that all punishment is administered by a loving wife that is only interested in training him to do his very best. In a femdom relationship men learn to take pride in the quality of service and devotion to their female ruler. A man’s focus in life is centered on his mistress. Every day of his life he thanks her for making him into her slave. Yet, like you said things are never perfect. In order to be a good submissive husband men need training, they need discipline. By discipline I mean a structure of rules to live by. I also believe that a little fear of a wife is a good thing. A little fear keeps a man on track.