I wanted to channel that “irritability” into increased work performance and more useful attention to me and our marriage. Now, along with that irritability there was no question that at that time of the month elliot’s sexual urges peaked as well. In fact I had to whip him several times for either coming without permission or simply pestering me for sex too often.

Now, as it happens, my own sexual interest peaks when I ovulate so it was no bad thing for elliot to be interested; but that interest needed to be controlled. A man in his position does not demand sex or even ask for it, he is given the privilege of seeing to his wife’s sexual needs which may, from time to time, involve his sexual participation. But usually not.

While a good stiff whipping will certainly keep even the most amorous husband in his place it is not really a good long term solution. Especially when a dominant wife wants her obedient husband to be full of testosterone so he can thrive in the business world and bring her the rewards of his success.

It is early days yet because elliot has only been in his cock cage full time for a few months but I am beginning to see an unanticipated benefit to strictly limiting a man’s orgasms and even erections: his cycle is disrupted. And in a quite interesting way. Rather than shaving the peaks of his testosterone production, caging elliot and keeping him chaste but on sexual edge seems to have “filled the valleys”.

He is much more attentive to me but, and this is important, he is much more focused on his work in the hopes of pleasing me. Elliot realizes that his only chance of sexual relief is when I am very much in the mood and, truth to tell, my mood is, as often as not, a product of how pampered and secure I feel.

A really well trained submissive husband knows he will only be released from his cage when the Lady of the House wants him so he does all he can to create the right mood.

Not, of course, that elliot has any choice in the matter. I want him chaste, I have him in a chastity cage and I have the keys. He has agreed to submit to my authority and, if he is foolish enough to object or, worse, beg to be let out he knows I will whip him hard and often until he remembers his obedience.

Controlling your husband’s hormone cycle is just one more way a dominant wife is able to enjoy her life while enhancing her husband’s. I strongly recommend it.

I can keep elliot’s little cock in its cage, have him wear panty girdles and a nightie to bed each night but I want him to be a man I can show off when I choose. I see no contradiction. That I keep him chaste most of the time does not diminish his sexual allure and the fact I whip him does not break his wonderful, male, spirit. When he reads in Church only I know that his cock is caged and that he has a teddy on under his sweater. He gives his submission to me and, unless I decide I want to reveal it, it is our private life.

On occasion I will humiliate elliot in public or humble him in private; but, what I love about elliot is that he accepts his humiliations and punishments without losing his personality. He is better behaved but never broken.

That he is not allowed to actually have me very often makes the tension all the more real and all the more effective. He stays locked up in his little cock cage but he watches as I dress and undress, he sees my pretty lingerie, my stockings, my panties. And, if he is very lucky, he catches a glimpse of my body; but just a glimpse because I am with the French women who never let their husbands see them fully naked.

I had elliot ejaculate on his knees in front of me. He had been in his cage for rather a long time, I don’t actually remember how long, and when I told him I would let him out to fill his cup he was delighted.

I have to admit I can be entirely clinical about the ejaculatory habits of men. There is really nothing so very complex and most men have been playing with themselves since they were young teenagers. If a man has not come for a while and you tell him to make a splash he’ll get his business done in no time.

elliot, of course, is nipple trained. I am not saying he can’t ejaculate without having his nipples pinched, but it takes much longer. So I pinched his nipples, he stroked his little cock, made his mess, drank it, licked the cup and was back in his cock cage all of 9o seconds after I unlocked him.

As I explained before, it is important that a submissive man never be allowed to come without supervision and without a degree of humiliation. Setting up the situation, taking a very matter of fact approach, pinching the nipple hard, making sure to make a little fun of his little cock, belittling him a bit as he reaches climax – it is the little things which make a forced ejaculation a wonderfully pleasurable but completely humbling experience.

elliot is chatting about his complete acceptance of my dominance and his submission. I am pretty sure what he means to say is that he has entirely surrendered to my authority. Unconditionally.

His cock cage and now ball spreader and the girdle he doesn’t even remember he is wearing are all tokens of this surrender. But they are just tokens. I hold the keys to rather more than his silly little cock.

A much more basic indication of his capitulation is his daily morning date with my panties in his corner. I don’t tell him to go, he gets out of bed, brushes his teeth, picks up my pretty panties and stands naked in his corner until I tell him he can come out. It has become a part of him.

In a long-term female led relationship a well trained husband goes from trying to compromise or trim or negotiate with his wife to accepting her commands, demands and decisions to genuinely craving her authority. elliot is never happier than when I tell him I want my boots polished or my back rubbed. I think he might be a little resentful that Mady now rinses out my lingerie; but she tells me she has him do hers so it all balances.

Obeying me without question or hesitation fills a need in elliot. And, as that need has been filled he has become more attentive, productive and wonderfully loving. He is, delightfully, a surrendered husband and I take very good care of him.

Married to a beautiful young woman with a domineering personality that worked as a highly paid, big shot corporate manager.

I work and my pay is directly deposited into her account. I’m given an allowance and have to ask her for permission to purchase anything and must provide receipts when requested.

I have to do all the cooking, cleaning, diaper changing, etc around the house.

I am pierced and locked in a secure male chastity device. I’m given only 1 orgasm a quarter on average and completely up to her discretion.

I must service her orally every night and upon request and endure numerous teasing and denial seasons while restrained to the bed.

If I am to be granted my quarterly orgasm, I must have proven my worth by way of completing all my house chores to her liking and by way of romantic gestures, such as buying her flowers, giving her a massage and bubble baths, etc.

I must take her shopping and watch her try on clothes and carry her bags.

All decisions, big and small, are hers and I must abide by anything she tells me to do.

I am punished harshly by way of an extension in chastity and cbt for any disobedience or whining about sexual frustration.

For me, yes, the porn and masturbation have all ceased, as well as the sexual objectification or fantasizing since the attempted erections make it unpleasant. In addition, I’ve found myself appreciating and treating my wife like a queen and never ever take the intercourse she “gifts” me for granted no matter how infrequent.