To keep us on course I instituted several rules to remind us of what we were trying to do. It seems silly but the rule of not allowing him to sit on the living room furniture as if he were a dog was an amazing success. Every time he curled at my feet as I sat on the couch brought it back to me that we were on a journey together. In similar vein, establishing a set time I would whip him did wonders. It kept us on track. I kept sprinkling our day with little rules and reminders of our separate positions in our relationship. None of them were so arduous that we could live with them but they kept us moving forward.

One day, after several years, we hit an inflection point. After that, he readily accepted my criticisms concerning his service to me.

Now, I believe he never again wants to feel any confusion about wanting to be anything other than my slave. I’m guessing that this confusion only caused him additional stress. Consequently, he wants to stay directly under my thumb. It seems I have altered his instinctual drive toward freedom to instead move in the direction of complete surrender to me. It’s a little scary but at the same time it is tremendously exciting. My domination of him has taken on a life of its own. I always dreamed of this and now it is coming true.

I already socially demote my sub, Butler, when we migrate south each winter for two months. No one in that small Florida town knows he is my love interest. He’s a good bit older than me so it makes it more believable. While in Florida he lives in the garage apartment and takes care of our yard and the car. I’m never seen in public with him. When one of my Florida friends sees him they literally look through him as if he didn’t exist. Such is the power of a social demotion. It makes it much easier for me to date freely knowing he is experiencing a crushing isolation and humiliation.

I think this is so much better than the typical cuckold scene where everyone knows what is going on. I love the way my dates and other women treat him when they think he’s just the older guy who lives in the garage apartment. He says it’s the most humiliating thing we’ve ever done together. Fantastic!