I got a piercing and stretched it out and ordered a Lori #5 chastity tube which came in about three months later. My wife decided we needed to do a two week stress test to figure out if all was well and luckily the device fit perfectly and caused no irritation. This is where things got scary.

At first she told me she would unlock me every other sunday. So come the first sunday unlock day she told me she wanted to keep me without orgasm for 120 days (a number an online friend recommended her) if i am good or until next year if she sees it fit. She is dead serious about this and will not unlock me not matter how much i beg. Last week she told me if i bring it up one more time she will add an astronomical amount of time.

Does anyone know if it is possible to remove a Lori without the key?? I am completely desperate right now. I have been locked now for 7 weeks and I am dying for release. I cannot imagine going for another two months or longer. We only have one key and she keeps it in her safe deposit box at the bank. Please help me. There must be a way to remove the screw. Has anyone ever successfully removed the lock on a lori?

And he DOES beg to come, still. I’m not sure why since he KNOWS it’s just not going to happen. I expect it’s a combination of his being thrilled at being denied explicitly over and over again, and the fact he simply can’t help himself when he’s in that state.

Let me get this straight, you agreed to chastity and getting a secure device and now you’re trying to go behind her back sneak out of the device because you don’t like the lock up period she’s set for you? How is any of that fair to her? This is supposed to be about what she wants, not about what you want. Why can’t you just shut up and keep her happy? Maybe then she’ll start giving you more releases.

If anyone sanctions the notion that men should be let out whenever they’re tired of chastity then we’re essentially advocating the idea that male chastity is merely a kinky game for men to enjoy.

well my Mistress is a bit strict but i’m always allow to talk to Her and sometime She says yes and other time She says no. and I have stopped pouting now after She says no.

I would argue that by agreeing to chastity, he automatically agrees to her deciding his release schedule. That’s what submission is about. Sounds to me like he’s just looking for a way to cheat and that’s unacceptable. If he wants out, then he should tell her knowing that it means that it might cause strain in their relationship. Why not just give her what she wants and make her happy?

If he is released everytime he wants instead of when she wants then what’s the point of handing her control and trusting she knows best? That doesn’t mean he won’t genuinely want out at times (we all do), but that’s the whole point, she decides regardless. That’s why it’s important for women not to give in to stuff like this. I think he’s just having trouble letting go of control and needs to at least try to learn to accept the change. Women know best about these things.

I just get a firm ‘no’ or a ‘ you aren’t allowed’ if I ask for release from my device or for an orgasm.

One time I had been released and was busy licking her when I got it into my head to try and make love. My head had got as far as her chin when she suddenly said ‘what do you think you are doing, get back down there and finish what you started!’ When I told her that I wanted to make love to her I was told that I wasn’t allowed. I just got shoved so my head was back between her legs. Damn, I’m getting an attempted erection just remembering it!

We have been playing with chastity for about four years now gradually getting more and more serious to the point where I only had two orgasms last year

Well this year my wife has become so strict. I could always beg enough to get out but that is over she now won’t budge I have not bet let out for months now apart from the supervised 2 min unlock was and back on once a week and on top of that it now turns her so much …she was never sure how the dominant role would suit her now she has such powerful orgasms
She now only wants to let me out for the day on my birthday. …..Half of me loves it the other half is a bit scared
I have not had an orgasm this year yet
It is the sudden loss of control or at least the option of getting unlocked when I think I need it that both turns me on and is a worry
A fantasy come true and we both love it …I think

My wife has had a boyfriend for the last year who takes care of most of her needs. I am the primary financial provider but she seems to enjoy my suffering by imposing an almost semi permanent denial. In the end I want to make her happy. She does reward me occasionally but it is rare.