No orgasm for two years

Last two years without any release for him, and he is so balanced now in his destiny:) The numbness has fine-tuned my strategy and besides the obvious frustration I can see in his eyes when I make him perform, still not been able to feel anything, I also sense a very very proud husband, who gets a boost from knowing that he has given it all up of for me.

Truth is I would not keep him like this if it was not that I knew for a fact that this is truly what he wants.
Oh, countless times he has told me that he never saw this coming, that he used to be a victim of the wellknown male fantasy; that the lifestyle would lead to so much more sex and action for him.

I must admit that I am the one who has got the benefits, sexually as with dozen of other areas.
Perhaps I am not paying back as I should but it is hard to give when You are being served and pampered all the time;-)
He is an oral expert and I can say that he is up there with Anne. God I have turned naughty!
Intercouse is on the other hand in decline, but I guess that is what I have read from other ladies too. When oral is THAT GOOD, who needs more? Well, I can still enjoy to ride it from time to time…. He is well-equipped, so it would be a shame not to take use of it;-)
He is afterall still my MAN;-)

My g/f used to have me on an unlock schedule and I had an idea of when I would cum, but now she has me locked up indefinitely. It’s less pressure for her to grant me a release without having to keep inline with a schedule and it keeps me guessing. The basis for us is that I am to be locked in my cage indefinitely. This establishes her authority and control over me. She sees no reason for me to be unlocked at any time and I agree. The only time when we plan to take off the cage is for 15 minutes on Sunday nights for a supervised thorough cleaning, then it’s back on for another 7 days.

To earn my releases, we took a page from KeepHimCaged’s blog and we use a coin toss.

If I do good things for her or make her cum, then I can earn a earn a coin toss. As long as I keep flipping heads then I build credits, but if I flip tails then it’s back to zero. One head is nothing, two heads is an hour out my cage (supervised and no touching myself), three heads is a teasing session, four heads is a hand job or blow job with her option of making it a ruined orgasm, and 5 heads is PIV sex. I can cash in my credits any time along the way, but then I go back to zero. If we have PIV sex or I have an orgasm, then I need to wait at least a week before earning tosses again. In 3 weeks, I’ve only earned 5 tosses and built up two heads and now I’m back to zero. It’s tough!

We started 4 years ago a slowly it go more and more serious or strict would be a better word .last year I had two full orgasms only 🙁 and like you my wife had a low sex drive now also she cum alot with or with out me .i cum very little she now only unlocks me (apart from cleaning )to milk me with a ruined orgasm as she loves feeding it to me it turns her on…so now over time that’s all I get unlocked ruined eat it it make her cum and locked back up I am just here to be used it seems in the bed very erotic and bloody frustrating haven’t had an orgasm this year and she has hinted I won’t be having one this year.
We are the happest we have ever been it’s odd how things evolve I will be cooking her dinner tonight as usual.
Since the wife started taking the key to my device, the times in which I am locked up have been getting longer. Last year she had me go for 2 months three times. The start of this year she had me locked for 2 1/2 months. What lies ahead only she knows, but I would venture to say longer times in chastity are in my cards. She tells me she loves how anxious I get in order to serve her the longer her cock is locked away.
Gradually (with 6 months) she realized the power in controlling me by keeping me locked
She also noticed that longer lockup duration made me more submissive, caring, obedient and tamed husband
So my release frequency reduced to 1-2 times a month and later 1-2 times in 6 months
In the mean time she did not want to miss her pleasures, so we tried me giving her oral sex
I never imagined that this newly found ‘oral sex’ is going to lead me to permanent chastity!
You all know the rest of the story!