I like this idea. But for me, I think I would have to move the keys out of the house. Keeping them at work or a safe deposit box or something. I am keeping the options open. There is a scenario where we would have to unlock it, so that it is probably a better deal than sealing it. Really this is symantics because it almost never comes off. Like two or three times that I can think of this year.

my Wife MsL and i have been married over 40 years. Most of it She has been the Dominate person in control of the finances, household decisions, and me, both in and out of the bedroom. We lead a simple life in a FLR and D/s relationship. She has decided to keep me chaste so i am permanently locked in a Lori’s #5 which i have grown accustom to over the last year.

my experience in male chastity is extensive. We started in 2002 with an MCD which is a plastic strip with spikes. i could only wear it three days at the most. Like most, we tried the cbxxx series and She soon decided plastic was a toy. i was measured and fit with a Neosteel Hip belt and wore it almost full time after an adjustment period. Jan. 2004 She gave me the gift of receiving an 8 ga PA. and three months later She gave me for our anniversary a Lori’s #6 the older solid model so we could switch between the Neosteel and the Lori’s and not leave me unlocked.

My sub/hubby has been grumbling about my plan to keep him in permanent chastity and orgasm denial. He has been locked up pretty much 24/7 now for about the last 3 years. He gets out for a few days or a week once in awhile. I milk or give him a release ever now and then, no more then 10 a year. My plan next year is absolutely no release from his chastity sleeve, and only 4 milkings and 1 orgasm a year from now on. he thinks I am being extremely cruel and unreasonable about it. And says there isn’t many Women around the world who would do that to there hubbies. I don’t believe that.

I have trained him to please Me properly with his mouth and tongue. As well, we have many strapon’s and toys for My pleasure. I haven’t needed his penis in Me for sometime now. I get all the pleasure I need in other ways.

I feel that it is your choice on what happens as he is nothing more than a sub.

he is just scared of what he has created I think. Careful what you wish for men, it could happen to you! Fantasy and reality are two different things. We are a long time couple who have grown to this stage over 15 years. If he wanted to stop or out, he would have. he needs this as much as I do. We both love it. It’s just new to him being in a total FLR for him. he will adjust.

To the previous poster…they are a couple that i an familiar with ..she is real and he is afraid …i’ve met him.

Let Me tell everyone, i love my Mistress and if she was to tell me i would never have another orgasm again just to please Her. i would be fine and accept Her choice for me.

Yes i love to cum, used to jerk off daily all my life. i found over time how selfish it was, and as i got older. It took longer to rebound and be attentive and submissive to Her, sometimes days, and then i would be jerking off again. Again ignoring her pleasure and only being selfish about my own. I have to say, i am happier to be locked and have those orgasms taken away and out of my hands, and let her decide when i get to cum.

Yes i was grumbling about what she has in mind, but i gave her that control. What kind of a man goes back on what. i hoped and begged for a Mistress like that all my life. Now i have what i wished for. Sometimes it sucks a bit, but i wouldn’t trade it for a vanilla life again for anything.

Yes i Thank her every night for being my Mistress and keeping me in chastity and orgasm denial. I have never been able to cum in the tube, since it is so tight when i get hard. No movement in it. It’s less than a inch inside diameter. Mistress has brought me off in it only when she uses her high powered Hittachi vibrator. This will cause me pain and frustration, and i usually shoot about a foot across the floor. Which then i must knee and crawl while licking it all up.

Last year i only had 2 real orgasms, and the rest where milkings or ruined one. So really not far off that number if she goes thru with it. And she promised to give me at least 4 milkings. That’s one every three months. I can’t complain about that.

I would concur with the comments regarding milking and as long as they are entirely orgasm-free, then I see no problems for them to be given at regular 4 week intervals. This will drain him of any troublesome fluids.

I could care less if locked120 cums or not. FLR and male chastity was his deal when we met and I’m going along with it (not that I mind haha). He’s been locked up the whole time (approaching 3 yrs) and has maybe 4 or 5 usually ruined orgasms a year. BCWYWF

I personally know a few guys who do not get to orgasm period ..one for just under 1000 days …nada zippo… does he like it all the time ?…nope … does he want to orgasm? ..yup.. it’s because he asked for it and told his Mistress She has control ..She took that control and pushes him farther each year …he committed to Her …he is an honorable man.

Even though originally my fantasy was a woman that controlled my orgasm( including denying them completely) was where my perspective eas at the start, i also made it clear i wanted You to follow Your own likes and dislikes and i would follow in line with that.. To hear You say You don’t care one way or another is ….surprisingly hot☺ And a great big thank you for the type of orgasms You Do allow and produce…Always much appreciated.

Sigh. He asked, begged for chastity and only now has second thoughts? Too bad,it’s called Dominance and Submission,and he gets the submission part. All his whining is topping from the bottom.

If he’s been in chastity 3 years already I would think it isn’t a big deal to go 24/7 with less releases, isn’t that what eventually happens to everyone in (real deal) chastity?

You’re an alpha woman and your subby hubby should count his blessings that he can lick you to orgasm often while in long-term chastity. After all, you could have turned into a prude Puritan instead.

Sorry, I did not realize that Cumslave already is so well trained. Going from 10 to 1 (or none), well, a submissive man can come through a woman’s orgasm, if he sets his mind to it, without needing to ejaculate himself.

his anniversary is November 15th. That is when this year is up. he hasn’t cum or been milked since Aug 4th, and won’t be until the 15th of November. No way No how. Next year we discussed, and I have taken his milkings into consideration.

So for the rest of amount of times he get’s to cum, well will have to see. He knows he will get one next year, but I am incharge and maybe he’ll get more. This is also about his sub/slave training in a FLR also. So if he performs well, and meets My expectations as a worthy slave hubby. he might get more than he ever expected. But if not, he knows the consequences. We both agreed to this, and he is eager and willing to comply.

To Us this isn’t about just chastity and orgasm denial, but his training to be a perfect sub/slave husband. This means everything from domestic household chores to bringing Me the best orgasms he can. he has learned to lick My ass, drink my golden nectar, recycle his cum, massage My feet and body. Everything a sub/hubby needs to know to pleases his Mistress. This also includes a lot of sexual frustration for him. It just keeps him inline. There is also a lot of punishment and discipline he is given on a monthly basics. he can’t sit for days after I whip and beat his ass.

So this is our life, and we will keep communicating and exploring this wonderful life together.

I’m in discussion with a Domme/Cuckoldress who also desires permanent denial for Her sub/slave. Her reasoning is service to Her is unconditional and should not be linked to any possible pleasure or reward for the sub, therefore there should never be any release for the sub. I am a firm adherent of orgasm control and denial by a Female Dominant as it clearly defines the power exchange dynamic.

My subbie’s locked permanently. Final.

Not unreasonable at all.

If it’s what you want, and you can, then go for it.