Definitely all depends on the people involved. For me…locked up means locked up…period. I don’t get out at all. If my wife wants some pleasure, I give it to her…but I don’t get anything until she decided to unlock me.

He hasnt had a full orgasm since last December, and I have no plans to let him have one. That doesnt mean that Im not serious or that Im slack, Im VERY strict. He has been milked, not regularly but it does happen, he IS edged on a regular basis and he has had a few ruined climaxes but that is all. HE IS STILL CHASTE

My lovely Mistress Sarah had me doing chores plugged, and now 55 days and desperate in the CB. She often says She will keep me locked for a year, just to see me cry…Today was chores all dressed as Her maid, plugged, nipples clipped and a very leaky clit. She enjoy watching me mince about the house doing all the cleaning, laundry, serving Her lunch all while i dripped like mad…Permanent chastity sounds very difficult, i doubt much if i can handle much more, but i don’t dare whine, or complain, just serve Her pleasures…

I am currently in a Mature Metal Jailbird with the security screws. She used blue Loctite on the screw this time. It is supposed to be removable with the key. She is 64 years old and has already made the decision of permanent chastity at the point she no longer desires penetrative sex. She feels close enough to that point to already have purchased red Loctite.

I prefer to be with woman who believe in permanent chastity. I dont know why, but I cant resist woman who think that men should never cum again My last affair never wanted me to cum. So it was kind of permanent chastity. I had no device. I was just not allowed to cum as long as I wanted to be with her. I was just allowed to make her cum.

I’ve known since the first time in a device, 10 years ago, I desired permanent chastity. That night, laying spooned together after some sweet one-way orgasms, I actually whispered in her ear, ‘please keep me caged forever’. Knowing now that it will happen because she wants it, the day she looks in my eyes and seals it with the red Loctite will be almost as wonderful as the day she agreed to marry me.

We have found a wonderful small & confining device, which serves to not only remind me, but due to it’s size, really deters masturbation. Even though I desire it so strongly, chastity without a device is not really practical for me. We are a very secure, mature couple. The only thing that will ever divide us will be one of us passing.

My KH wife is taking me to prolonged lockup duration, targeting 3-4 times a year.
May be later it will be once a year. She can’t even dream of me being castrated.
It’s like this. You use your precious jewelry once or twice a year. Does that mean you dispose it off?
There is a great pride in ‘possessing’ something valuable though it is not used often.

As Owner of slave peter on here and elsewhere and of course in real life, I should like to ask members here about permanent long term chastity of male slaves. Knowing there is a distinct line drawn between male slavery fantasy and fiction to real life male slavery to a Female and also where chastity is used by couples wishing to put a spark into their marriage there begs a question that is very often misconstrued regarding whether chastity is worthwhile in long term unconditional slavery of males to Females.

let me put it this way, slave peter is on a long term unconditional slavery to me and has been permanently locked without relief, except being anally milked every three month,s. I don’t allow any masturbation, nor self relief whatsoever and he never expels,s his filth without being in chastity. He knew this when he signed my contract and has never mentioned or begged to be released as he knows it would be pointless anyway.

As he is 45 years old, his breeding days (if he had any) are well and truly over, not physically as I realise many males can still breed well after this age, However, he has chosen a life of servitude to me on his own free will and cannot escape, even if he wanted (at least not without dire consequences). The question is, (at the risk of being slated here) that should it be legal in this country why is not correct or sensible to have him castrated ? or rendered properly impotent? Now I know I risk all the stupid remarks on ethic,s and morality here, but my slave is quite happy to undergo this for me, and yes I can take him to Thailand or Mexico and have it done legally I know, it just seems rather silly and stupid. Lets face it, any male who is on here, single and without an Owner and is over the age of 40 are probably masturbating furiously and pretending to be chaste ! anyway. All males unowned or uncontrolled will masturbate incessantly as to them it is pure fiction or wank fodder. My view is once a male has decided on a life of slavery to a Female, then he basically gives up all rights to function as an intact male, unless his Owner decides he can. Some Female Owners want an intact male, I don’t. And to perfectly blunt, keeping him locked and having to milk him occasionally is a chore I don’t need or want. As a Female Supremacist, I find single males furiously masturbating over porn and the Female body very degrading and suggest that when a male is unowned, unmarried and over 40 they should be either castrated or put into permanent chastiy. vey controversial I know, my view only.

I am in permanent chastity for 5 years because I can not satisfy my wife with my little sex.
As I understood my situation and that I love my wife, I respect his decision.
I emptied by milking every six months.
Now, my only goal is the pleasure of my wife.

I enjoy the castration fantasy, and often ask my slave if he would willing have it done, or threaten him (fantasy} with it. telling him since his dicklet is unused, why does he need it. but it would take such pleasure away from both of us, as i so enjoy teasing and torturing it. im sure there are people that go to the extreme, and to each her or his own.

I sense from my Wife/Mistress/Keyholder that it doesn’t matter whether it is porn, sexy ice dancers at the Olympics, a smartly dressed professional woman clicking down the aisle in her heels at the grocery store or a sweaty female jiggling by our home in her form fitting spandex jogging or power walking that she takes delight in knowing that these images arouse me and that I can only look longingly and leak away.

It was my idea given that maintaining my Wife/Mistress/Keyholder’s feet and toes is one of my responsibilities. She receives many compliments on her toes in warmer weather and does not hesitate to offer up the information that “our bedroom” is where she goes to get her pedicures and that I am the person performing them…sort of embarrassing, but the reactions are usually an expression of jealousy and admiration that she is lucky to have me trained so well.

Day by day me & my KH wife are enjoying my chastity more & more.
While I enjoy serving her, she enjoys a TOTAL control over my dick.
She is more possessive about the key than her jewelery!
She now has a large collection of chains, handcuffs & collars – all for me!

I have kept my husband locked for the last 3 years. A few months ago I discovered he had cheated and masturbated without permission, so I decided his punishment would be permanent chastity (that means no more orgasms for him). He’s only 27 y/o, so his sex drive is quite high, which is really frustrating for him.

Not letting him masturbate or have penetrative sex, made him really submissive, which I took advantge of to transform him into a sissy. This means he’s always fully shaved, his only underwear is sexy lingerie, preferably pink, and the only sex I allow him to have is giving oral sex to me, my bf or whoever I want. If he behaves well, sometimes I penetrate him with toys or let my bf or others fuck his ass. I also tease him regularly and force him to sleep buttplugged, but obviously he’s not allowed to orgasm under any circumstances.

Today my wife said that she no longer felt any guilt or pity for not giving me an orgasm and liked things the way they were when I did not have one. She further stated that she no longer wanted to give me an orgasm on some arbitrary future date because that is what I wanted. She said that often she did not want to put up with my mood after an orgasm for the next 3-4 days and then wait another 4 or 5 days for me to get to the point where I was willing to do anything she wanted and no longer argumentative.

There was also talk about how many times she made me cum when she was not in the mood and how it is her turn now to have orgasms when I did not. She also told me that since she always had her orgasm first because after I had one, I would go through the motions with her, she too lost interest after a few orgasms and just wanted to relax and not have to work on me. What ended up happening is that pointed out that our Valentine’s Day agreement only specified no orgasms for me until that day but did not say I would have one. Darn, I did not consider that. Anyway, she left it at denying me an orgasm for whatever period of time she wanted to and that would usually be if I was very obedient and did not piss her off and when it would contribute to her orgasm, not just because I wanted one or she felt obligated to give me one.

I do not know how long she intends to deny me and now my eager anticipation of Valentine’s Day is ruined. Yet, I do not know if she will let me have an orgasm of if I am going to have to wait until she feels that she needs me to cum for her enjoyment. In the past, she did take pity on me which is why we had the no orgasm agreement in place. However, I did not anticipate what would happen after that. I assumed and assumed wrong.

I had my usual one week panic attack and told my wife that I cannot sleep and need sex. She got mad at me and said no. It was an interesting day. She took me shopping and bought $200 worth of lingerie to tease me with. She made me carry the bags. Then it was off to food shop. Usually I just tag along but this time she was barking orders for me to fetch the items she wanted to buy.

When we got home she told me to unload the car and bring all the grocery bags in. After that she modeled the lingerie she bought but told me not to touch. She really has embraced teasing and denial in a big way.

I told her that she was under no obligation to make me cum on Valentines Day as she had previously said. I told her to just make me cum when she wanted me to. Her reply was that could be a very long time. We talked some more. I mentioned that she is getting moe dominant each day. She said she was aware of that and she liked the control over me. Then she said that if it was up yo her, I would never cum but I said that it would be good to give me an orgasm or two each month to make sure the plumbing was working and clean out the pipes.

She also wanted to add that I get one warning to adjust my attitude or else she will add another week to my chastity period. Whether she really would or not, I do not want to chance it. She had read on some website that after the guy has his orgasm it is important to put him right back into a submissive frame of mind. To that end, she wants to lock it up right after I have my orgasm.

Mistress decided it would be at LEAST 90 days before allowing me to unload. At 90 days she said she could see no reason to allow me to unload ….. it ended up being 234 days before she unloaded her balls.

I am now at about 45 days and she says she will not even consider it until at least Memorial Day and more than likely it will be at least Labor Day. She does unlock me and do Training Sessions where she may edge me several times without release. She also allows me to “visit” her but her cock must always be put in a cock sheath to enter her.

We are now trying for at least one month of chastity. My wife has lost any guilty or dutiful feelings that used to make her give me an orgasm earlier than she wanted. One big difference is that before, she always unlocked me for sex and would edge me over and over for an hour. I would beg for an orgasm and sounded very pitiful. The difference now is that she keeps me locked up all the time so her teasing does not elicit the same response to me. I have found that if I just respond to her teasing but do not beg for release, she is not conflicted about what to do. Now I just tell her how good it feels and that I never want that feeling to go away.

Well……….. It’s finally happened. Amy has decided, and I can only agree with her decision though it pains me because I DO enjoy them, that it’s a bad idea for me to have any orgasms at all in the forseeable future. I need to update my ticker when I’m at home because the Sunday before last she did allow me to have two, but the memory of those two and how good they felt will have to last me at least for several months, if not a year or years. Indefinite period of chastity indeed.

I love being used by Mistress, She told me this morning, your tushy needs some play soon. That’s because she loves to peg me. She turns me into a wimpering, submissive , Sissy bitch. that needs her cock so so bad. And she is so aware of that! I would do anything for her, She owns me. She fully understands what she is doing, and what direction she must continue to take me, into her SPELL! I need her, and want her. And adore her!

Last month after a edging session and after i calmed down and put my cage back on i returned to bed to find her naked and she simply said you have 2 min to orgasm but you will wear a condom and your time starts NOW.
i rushed to get my cage off and find a condom all the while she was counting down.

Suffice to say i was only inside when it was over… it took 30 seconds.
My KH was delighted ??

The next day i enquired why was she so happy about it and does she not worry if we were to stop with chastity that this PE problem could remain from her training me like this.
Turns out she is not worried at all and this is actually a plan to faze out “HER” penis in favour of her Favourite BBC dildo that she has been saving her self for to enjoy in the next 3 months from now, So im to under go further training until then.

As much as this is shocking to hear, i so enjoy using the Dildo on her with the harness. (Never seen her cum so hard)

At least now i know my retirement date.

With all of that edging though I bet you were ready to explode at the thought of her letting you penetrate her. I have a strap-on that allows me to be wearing my cage and take her with the dildo. She likes that since it allows her to feel like a cock is in her while still keeping me locked up. Keep up the good work!

My size started to dwindle too. Today, it is barely 5.4″ when really hard, and 5 1/4″ when hard most of the time (we/she measured it just last night). So now, instead of being in the “average” range, I’m in the bottom 25% of size and my wife loves it more as it gets smaller. She says she’s shooting for under 5″ hard !

We’ve also moved from the plastic CB to a mature metal CB (Queen’s Keep), and physical/emotional step has been a huge one for both of us. Instead of looking down and seeing something plastic that could easily be broken off if desired, it is clearly permanent. I can’t describe the increase in submissiveness — almost like now I can’t wait to be locked-up, and forcibly kept in it forever.

So we just ordered a new mature metal Jail Bird which they said can be curved down more sharply. We’ve also shortened the cage length to only 2″ because I often have a little space in the 2 1/4″ Queens Keep when soft. And it seems my wife is very serious about getting my maximum length under 5″ when hard.

I clearly went from 5.9″ to 5.4″ when extremely hard. I know that sounds terrible from a male perspective, but it is erotically fulfilling to a submissive. I asked my wife for her thoughts before I posted this reply, and She said (actually texted me): “The shrinkage is a tangible reaffirmation for my husband that he cannot adequately satisfy my needs. This satisfies his submissive needs and my dominant sexual ones in one very happy outcome for us both!”

Ten years ago, my subhub was about 5 1/2″ erect. These days, he’s down to four at the most. LOL