Its no secret I keep my husband locked 24/7 now, and he has not had a “proper orgasm” as he calls it in over a year. He is usually edged or suffers a ruined one now and then. From time to time I may milk him by massaging his prostate, but only on what I think is a special occasion.

I have decided that there is to be no stimulation of his manhood until I say so, and I have told him that is going to be a VERY long time. So now it has been over 8 weeks since I I touched the pathetic thing with my fingers, I have stroked it with my very long nails and even have an old chop stick on my bedside table for inspection services you understand. When he goes to shower I go with him, and when I release him for washing I stand and watch, just to make sure we don’t have a replay of the other month when I caught him playing with himself in the shower. I still let him out quite regular in a morning to play with him, but now NO TOUCHING!!!! I love to scratch his balls and run my nail up his shaft to his cock head and just gently play around his wee hole and ever so softly push my 3 inch finger nail down his wee hole, all the time telling him how lucky he is to be getting this done to his sorry excuse for a cock. By doing this he becomes rock hard and begging me to wrap my fingers around and bring him to a climax…. even a ruined one….PLEASE…. NO WAY!!!! and just stop….. I sometimes push a sounding rod all the way down his wee hole and just lay there not doing a thing, just grinning and laughing at him, telling him how lucky he is to have such a cruel mistress……..
Yes he reaches out to hold his thingy, DONT YOU DARE!!!!!! I shout at him. This usually goes on for about 45 minutes to an hour and then it’s all locked away again, just like it should be. He puts his cage on now, I get to choose of course, and it is always my job to snap the padlock closed, that’s the final insult to his sexual freedom. So like I say, it has been over 8 weeks since his manhood has had any hand stimulation, and he said it is driving him crazy….that will do for me, just shows me I am doing my job right. When he asks when he will be permitted hand relief I just tell him “Maybe next year, but maybe the year after….or maybe never my darling”

And, i might add, that at our house and in the homes of other FLR couples, men may be present but are NEVER served! Men congregate in the kitchen TO serve! This is one of many protocols we have in Nancy’s family. This particular protocol is one of many written rules we have that set the household order and define male roles.

We have much in common in terms of our approach to serving our women and the assuming of our domestic responsibilities. i and other men i know in the lifestyle work from a schedule that parallels yours. Light cleaning every day with some heavier tasks also in play, circumstances permitting. I also have a daily tasks to tend to, laundry being one, ironing another.

And, as you note, serving the women is always top priority, so housekeeping may have to be postponed to accommodate their situation. If Nancy is going out of town on business, it’s my job to pack her bags. If the women are entertaining, then my priorities are focused on preparing a small meal, serving drinks, greeting the women, hanging coats, making drinks, and so on. A lot of work but a lot of fun too. In these situations housekeeping takes a back seat temporarily and often gets done in the wee hours of the morning after the women have left. I have two hours of personal time allocated each day, but it’s understood that this is only with the women’s permission AND if my work is done; otherwise, personal time has to be work time.

Heavy cleaning is done on weekends or when the women are away, much as you note. It’s a practical approach that allows me to focus my efforts appropriately. Any of the things i’m expected to do are spelled out. Nancy’s mother, Sue, has standards for everything—such as “52 Things That Add up to a Clean Living Room.” These are things She checks when inspecting my work—and She does inspect! Sounds burdensome but it isn’t; i know exactly what’s expected and do it.

“i wear an apron anytime i’m doing housework or tending to the needs of the women.

“Finally and ‘on-your-knees-cleaning’ refers to a thorough cleaning that necessitates one gets on their knees to do the work, not some sort of ritual thing.”

Joan then extended me Her hand; I genuflected and kissed it. “Very Good!” I recall Joan saying. Then, starting to get up from Her chair, She hesitated and said, ”Oh, why not?” She sat back down, crossed Her legs and extended me Her foot. I recall saying, “Oh, yes, Ma’am” as I knelt before Her and, gently taking Her foot, kissed it through the sheer taupe hue of Her nylons . It was the first of hundreds of times that i’d do this. “Oh, we are going to get on splendidly” Joan said, leaving me kneeling as She rose and left the room.

Perhaps the most powerful to me is putting on an apron, one that one of the Women has selected. It is a constant reminder of my role and of the Women’s authority. Women don’t wear aprons in Nancy’s family – men do.”

Although my Mistress has used feminization and chastity/denial right from the beginning ( 35years ago)to reinforce her dominance. we certainly do have protocols.
for example, I am never allowed to sit in HER prescence before being given permission. All it takes is for Her to point at the floor/ground at her side for me to kneel.
Yes we get some funny looks in the park or a station but we ignore them.
I am not permitted to address her by name when out. I must use either Mistress or Madam.At home it is Mistress only.

It matters not what I am doing, if She requires attention, I must attend to her immediately.
I do all the housework and washing/laundry, cooking, food shopping and errands.

As I am in chastity, I cannot provide enough with my tongue and strap on harness, for her pleasure.