Background info… For the past 3-4 years, I have been averaging a little over 12 hours of housework per week. This includes cleaning, cooking, dishes, laundry, etc.
A few weeks ago my wife decided that while 12 hours per week is pretty good, she wants me to do 20 hours per week.
I was shocked. I told her that I thought it sounded excessive, but she disagreed. She was hell-bent on the 20 hours.
We talked about it at length and her reasons for the fixation on 20 hours, which are:
- There are chores that currently aren’t getting done regularly that she thinks ought to be done and when she added those to my current weekly cleaning schedule, it came out to a little over 20 hours.
- The 20 hours is the equivalent of a part-time job and she really likes the idea of me having to do housework equal to a part-time job in addition to working a full-time job. This bleeds into the next reason…
- My wife insists that unless I am dedicated to doing a proper job with the housework, she isn’t satisfied and that will mean no unlocking of my chastity cage. Since she has forbidden sex for the last ten years, the rare erection she allows is the only fun I get to have. She lets me out for 15 minutes if she is satisfied with my housework. If not, I can try again the next week.
We tried the 20 hours per week schedule for 2 weeks before we went on vacation and I was able to do it, but it was a pretty challenging 2 weeks. I’m worried that it’s not sustainable over time.
We are back off vacation and we had our housework accountability meeting yesterday. I was about to suggest that we revert to the 12 hours/week schedule, but she spoke up first. She said that the only thing she didn’t like about our vacation was me not having to do any housework and that she was very excited about me getting back to doing 20 hours/week of housework. I just grinned like an idiot and agreed to it. The chores start tomorrow and I’m not super looking forward to all that work.
My boyfriend needs between 2 and 3 hours per day for the household and he also works fulltime. I think its a long time, but its not to much for him. Before we started a FLR he wasted his free time with gaming and Smartphone watching, when I was not there he also wasted time (and Energy!) with masturbating. Now that I have forbidden sex or masturbation, his wasted time goes now into the household. We are both happy with this arrangement and he thanks me for piling on the chores.