“Acknowledgments,” provides the justifications for my wife assuming control of my penis. For her, the most important justification is item 5, that, “Phallocentric sex is selfish, and Husband’s penis distracts him from giving Wife’s body proper attention, thus diminishing the overall quality of sex between the two parties.”

So far, our current relationship is fairly consistent with the old agreement. The major exception is section F, “Additional Provisions.” She shaves me when she wants, usually once a month, but sometimes she will go without shaving me for several weeks. She knows I enjoy the shavings, and she will cancel or postpone a shaving if she doesn’t think I deserve it. She never milks me, and I do not have an emergency key. The second key, which was initially intended to serve as an emergency key, is somewhere in her studio in a small plastic box secured by a combination lock. I used to carry the box in my brief case, but I gave it back to her when she told me she could no longer remember the combination.

Since we began our experiment with male chastity almost three years, I have never been allowed to masturbate. My wife will play with (and/or torture) my testicles several nights a week, but she will only touch my penis when she shaves my genitals once every month or so. If I have been good, she may masturbate me for a few minutes afterwards. Only rarely will she masturbate me to an orgasm. Less often, while we are in bed, she will unlock my chastity device and ride me to an orgasm. Meanwhile, I am expected to provide her regular cunnilingus, analingus, foot worship, and body massages.

When she returned to the bed, she took off her pajamas, which was a signal that I could touch her breasts. I gently licked and sucked on one of her nipples for a couple minutes, but I know not to continue for too long because she doesn’t particularly enjoy my playing with her breasts, and it is intended only as a treat. Plus, she won’t play with me until I begin attending to her feet and legs.

I would love for her to remove my chastity device so I can mount her, but I know this will never happen. If I want her to continue pleasuring me, we must play on her terms. Once I have finished applying lotion to her legs, I attempt to work my tongue onto her clitoris and vaginal opening, but she keeps her legs firmly closed. If I want to perform oral sex, it will have to wait until tonight. Instead, I place my hands on her buttocks and gently roll her onto her side. In the way she softly strokes my testicles, she lets me know she approves. I begin massaging her buttocks and the back of her legs before eventually applying my tongue to her anus. I alternate licking her anus and swirling my tongue over the goosebumps that have formed on the surrounding skin.

This continues for quite a while, and at times I can barely stand the pleasure she is providing me. Again, I imagine myself mounting her, free of the chastity device, but I know this isn’t a possibility.

I have a suggestion on the contract…. change “Transfer of control of the penis” to “Transfer of ownership of the penis”.
Just transfer it over to her and be done with it, it’s essentially already hers anyway. Just make it official and legit.

I agree with you that the penis piercing would be a good idea to guarantee the permanent chastity and take the question out of it.
At the time of the piercing she could also have “Property of” and her name and last four numbers of her SS tattooed on her penis.

Once her penis is secured permanently in the chastity device, she may find that she misses occasionally playing with and sucking
a real penis. If so, help her find a bigger and better one than hers (which is locked up and not usable) to play with.

First, any suggestions regarding our old chastity agreement are moot because my wife allowed the agreement to expire at the end of 2012 without an extension or replacement. She more or less requires me to wear a metal chastity device full-time, 365 days a year, and she maintains complete authority over our sex life without any rules or guarantees that might appear in a contract.