Last night I had his hands tied behind him and removed his penis tube. I was playing with him while I was masturbating with my vibrator. After I came, I asked him if he remembered the last time he was inside of me. He said he did and that it was several months ago. I couldn’t really remember.

I asked him if it was good for him and he said it was. I told him that I’m glad that his memory of his last time inside of me was a good one because I was thinking of making that the last time he is ever allowed to be inside of me. In a really plaintive and soft little, pleading voice,  he said,  “Really, you’d do that?” but at the same time his penis got harder (God, guys minds and bodies work weird together!)

I told him, “Well, yes, you say that you like being submissive to me and like it when I am dominant and having you inside of me seems like a dominant act for the man. I don’t feel very dominant when I’m lying beneath you with you thrusting inside of me. Even when I’m on top, it seems like I’m doing most of the work and its all about you. if I am to be truly dominant I think it might be time to say that you have had your last time ever putting your penis in me or anyone else.”

I told him that he has had a couple of decades to  know what it feels like to put his penis in a woman’s vagina and that his pleasant memories of these times should be enough to sustain him at his age. I pointed out that there are many men in the world who never get to put their penis in somebody’s vagina or don’t get to for years and they live just fine. This shouldn’t be the end of the world for him.

As we were lying there, his hands tied, and me gently tugging on his penis, I said, “In fact, I’ve been thinking that it might be best for the maintenance of your submissive demeanor if I make this type of activity right here the full extent of your sexuality from here on out.” It blew my mind, but even as he had this completely crestfallen look on his face, I felt his penis swell larger in my hand. He said, “But,…but I’d still have orgasms right? Like handjobs now and then and being able to rub up against your butt?” I told him, “I’m thinking not. I don’t like how you are after you have an orgasm. You become withdrawn from me and moody. For several days after your obsequious and doting behavior falls off and you become a bit petulant. I believe you’re at your best when I maintain you at a moderate to high level of sexual tension.”

He just lay there next to me and kept saying, “Please no, please don’t” I reminded him of how many times he has told me that he feels that I have more common sense and a more even temperament that makes me more suited to be in charge. He’s told me many times that he feels that his level of focus on sex has caused problems in his life and caused him to sometimes make bad decisions. We started all of this wife led marriage thing at his insistence. He said that he wanted me to conduct our sex life for the betterment of our marriage. I told him that having him in chastity and the abstinence from orgasms has made him a much better husband, much more obedient and cooperative. I told him that I have not fully decided yet what I’m going to do but that I was more pleased with our arrangement than I ever imagined I could be and that this might be best for our marriage. Then I told him that it was time to be locked back into his device. It took a long time for his erection to go down even with a cold washcloth on it. we snuggled for a long time and he was silent.