Once the male is securely placed in a chastity cage, affectionate actions 
wont include having an erect penis stabbing away at ones body when not really in the mood for it. Kisses and cuddles only.
I have also experienced temporary impotence after extended periods of chastity. We never played with periods as short as two weeks, but I know that at the one month mark or longer I need to be unlocked for a day or two before I can get hard enough for penetration.
We have had some fun with this, since my wife finds it amusing. She never unlocks me anymore, but she used to occasionally unlock me during sex knowing I wouldn’t be able to get hard and tell me to have what I want. As hard as I tried, I could never get into her and she found it very amusing and then would have me lock back up and say better luck next time.
Can’t help you there. My wife hates penetration and it’s the primary reason that chastity became a major part of our relationship.
Now that I’m no longer allowed to touch my penis, it has become impossible to have an erection, even on those rare times when my wife unlocks me. No more PIV for me. My wife uses a 10″ vibrator that satisfies her completely.
We have recently updated our contact and resumed 24/7 lock up.
I am a bit curious how often you get out of the belt.
Currently I am out of the bel about once or twice a week for cleanings. The rest of the time she holds the key. I don’t even have a sealed spare key anymore.
When showering she either watches me or she chain me to the shower tubing so that I can not touch myself.
Forgot to say I am not allowed to touch myself, net even for cleaning. She does that.
My wife hates PIV and keeping me permanently chaste is a dream come true for her.
My wife hasn’t been interested in intercourse for many years. Having been in panties for all that time, chastity was actually my suggestion. It reflected my position, but I’ve never felt like one lead to the other. She hasn’t decided yet if it is permanent, but no discussion about it. My cage is feeling a little tight as I contemplate such a thought.
We introduced a chastity cage into our sex life 10 years ago. Up to that point she always thought that piv was proper sex and oral was only occasional. As i got denied more and more i gave her oral instead which she enjoyed more and more until she realized that she had much better orgasms especially as i spent more time and effort as i was bring denied. Then a couple of years ago she basically indicated that piv was no longer required or desired.
My wife and I live in a FLR. We have lived like this for 2 years now and have been married for 7 years.
She, Madame Sime owns me and is in charge of everything in our life. The only place she isn’t in charge is at my workplace. There I have a female boss who is in charge.
My wife has used chastity from time to time to control me during those 2 years, but now she has decided it will be permanent 24/7/365.
Hubby has been locked in permanent chastity since November, 2015. One of the few reasons I have let him out is when he has flown for work. The past couple of weeks he has had to fly to both Houston and Chicago and this time I made travel wearing his MM Queen Keep. I did allow him to take the key in an envelope that I signed in case TSA made him take it off. Hubby said that he didn’t have any problem with security, going through both the metal detectors and body scanners. I guess his chastity is now even more permanent.
permanent chastity is a really nice goal Also with permanent orgasm denial? it would seem so. Her husband is not unlocked for anything sexual.
My wife knows that “sexual contact” means either pussy worship without her touching me at all, or pussy worship with her teasing me; in both cases I stay locked. I got used to saying “want to come to bed for half an hour?” Last week when I said this she had a big smirk on her face and said “that makes me laugh, you must know by now that I won’t be satisfied until at least an hour of oral”.