He is my husband but in name only. His position is much more wifely in the old sense of that term. He does what he is told. He is sexually compliant and rarely allowed to enjoy his own pleasure. He is subject to very strict discipline and is whipped for disobedience, talking back, or even taking a disrespectful tone. Most of all, in our marriage, he is the junior, subservient partner.

I am the Head of our Household and elliot obeys me without demur. Because that is who he is. Of course I remind him of his place from time to time but it is actually unnecessary; elliot is at his most alpha accepting his corrections and pleasuring me without any expectation of reward.

He is my husband but in name only. His position is much more wifely in the old sense of that term. He does what he is told. He is sexually compliant and rarely allowed to enjoy his own pleasure. He is subject to very strict discipline and is whipped for disobedience, talking back, or even taking a disrespectful tone. Most of all, in our marriage, he is the junior, subservient partner.

I am the Head of our Household and elliot obeys me without demur. Because that is who he is. Of course I remind him of his place from time to time but it is actually unnecessary; elliot is at his most alpha accepting his corrections and pleasuring me without any expectation of reward.

Then she projected that pattern and its results on letting John orgasm every month and found that for every year, they (and especially she) would lose that special devotion generated by male chastity for three to four months. She considered that loss much to high to permit if she didn’t have to, and she didn’t have to. John seemed perfectly content with the less frequent orgasms as long as there were frequent periods of sexual play, touching and teasing – even if it was just for Sarah’s benefit.

Figuring that if she allowed him to orgasm every month, then in a year she would be about 120 days or fully one third of the year in which she would not enjoy the special attention and devotion that she receives the rest of the time. This loss was too high of a price to pay for giving him the pleasure of monthly orgasms and instead she went to once every three or four months, extending that recently to seven months and seriously contemplating a year or more. Significantly, she noted that she had the absolute right in their arrangement to do this and her husband would obey.

Cunnilingus is an important part of  Wife Led Marriage. I prefer to receive cunnilingus as a ritual because it is more spiritual and meaningful, not just sensual. Cunnilingus is the most intimate of sexual acts and WLM give a it a powerful erotic charge.

The worship of the wife, pussy worship, is not limited by time. Tantric cunnilingus can last as long as the wife wants, even hours. Everything happens slowly without haste. The husband begins by peering at his wife’s pussy .  He smells her pussy , inhales a few deep breaths, holds them for a few seconds, and exhales. He tastes her pussy slowly, gently.

Cunnilingus should be frequent, at least once or more a day. The longer your husband’s denial cycle, the greater will be his enjoyment of the ritual and the more enthusiastic he will be in performing it.

Discipline is rarely enjoyable for the submissive while it is taking place (although if it induces subspace, it can be erotic and mentally and spiritually fulfilling). The cane and the paddle hurt and discipline can be uncomfortable. But afterwards, it yields the peaceful fruit of love and surrender.

The reason your mood changed after five or six painful blows of discipline is because it was at this point that you surrendered to her and once you surrendered to her, you were able to enter subspace. I am convinced after talking and communicating with so many submissive men over the years that there is no better experience for a man than that feeling of surrender to a woman. It produces peace and a feeling of being loved. It is intimate and romantic. It is spiritual and it is what the heart of man needs and longs for.

The strap-on is a further extension of the surrendering process. I think the strap-on is the perfect companion to the discipline session between a wife and her husband. First comes the discipline to get the male in the proper frame of mind, to get him to surrender his male ego. Then comes the strap-on to enforce that surrender. My, what a bond of intimacy and true female domination the paddle and the strap-on can bring to a relationship.

She is, without doubt, one of the most naturally dominant women I have ever met.  She is smart, beautiful, stylish, highly accomplished, confident to the extreme, and very comfortable giving orders.  She loves to be pampered with gifts, foot massages, hates housework, is a natural tease, has issued many requests for changes in my dress, behavior…you get the picture.  Even before I shared any overtly submissive feelings with her, I began to massage her, cook for her, clean house, get her drinks, flowers, etc.  At first I was in conflict with this aspect of my own nature, my ego is strong, and wanted simply the sexual aspect, but more and more I try to serve her in what ever way I can. 

Another way to keep a man in a submissive frame of mind is through regular Queening. Make it a part of your lifestyle to sit on his face and have him tongue your ass. Few FemDom activites will take a man to subspace and make him docile as quickly as Queening. This can be fore-play before he sexually services you or it can be as a means to dominate him during your weekly discipline session or you can do this in a non-sexual setting as you are watching television or reading a book while you sit your tush on his face.

Barbara had always been the head of the household. She spanked her husband on their wedding night. Benjamin had done nothing wrong. His wife made sure he understood who ruled the roost.

Unlike other men in the neighborhood, Benjamin never spent evening in a bar or pub. Barbara counted every penny. He dared not waste money on beer.

Benjamin worked hard. He was content. Life was good under his wife’s authority.

On payday, he presented Barbara with his paycheck when he came home. One week the check was smaller by a few dollars. When asked, Benjamin admitted that he had been docked for arriving late.

He offered no excuse for tardiness. His wife grew wrathful. Laziness was unforgivable. He might as well toss money into a sewer.

She grabbed a heavy cane. It was always ready in the corner to correct a disobedient husband. Tonight she would teach him to never again be late for anything.

Her husband screamed at the first blow. He continued to scream as hard wood cut repeatedly into his buttocks. He begged for mercy. His vocal cords grew raw, hoarse. He could only moan and weep.

Barbara gave Benjamin a long, violent whipping. He would never forget this night.

Now he is always early to work. This earned him a raise.

His wife’s cane was always ready in the corner. Often glimpsing it, he shudders and puts forth renewed effort and eagerness into his many chores.

Lorelei, a bit heartless, laughed at his discomfiture. Anna, more mature, stroked his head and told him to relax.

Together, mother and daughter explained everything. In this family, men were slaves. That had been true for over one hundred years. Now, Aiken as Lorelei’s husband was a slave.

Men did the farm work. He would feed the animals, do all the farm work and heavy labor. Since Anna’s husband had died six months ago, there was a backlog of chores for Aiken.

He would rise early every morning and work late into the evening. Aiken would be fed and watered, just like the other farm animals.

Later they would put him in chains He would live chained and leashed. Once married, slave husbands remained for life.

If he behaved himself, they would be spanked him only once daily. Maintenance spankings helped husbands remember their inferior status.

Disobedience, laziness would earn hard punishment. He should accept his new life and work hard. He would comply in the end, whatever he thought now.

Over the next few hours, he learned many rules and protocols. Simple things like addressing both women as Mistress. He wept when he learned that his penis would be locked. He would satisfy his wife with his tongue. But would not be permitted to use energy that could go into work by having orgasms. Ever.

Just as he would milk the cows, Lorelei would milk Aiken. He would drink his own milk. It was high in protein.

That was ten years ago. Aiken has accepted his slavery. Anna has passed away. Lorelei keeps him too busy to think about anything other than finishing his chores.

The picture shows two Dommes of the mid-1920s with their husbands. Both are mature women.

The nude Mistress Wife is older, more experienced. A novice Domme watches from the chair. Her newly enslaved husband faces the wall. He is forbidden to observe what follows.

Mistress Wife shoves her slave husband to his knees. Yanking on his hair makes him moan. These noises, those that followed, unnerves the inexperienced man. His imagination exceeds the actual events.

He shivered as he listened to the kneeling man’s face slapped.

His is more frightened by the noises that follow. The Domme Wife kicks her husband’s crotch. Her boots’ taps are not forceful. Even slight impact brings forth sounds of pathetic anguish.

Continuing to kick, she talks to him. She curses him for a weakling. Almost her every word is corrosive, obscene, ego-breaking. The standing husband feels he is the one being verbally abused.

Now he must face the women.

The older Domme orders her husband to prepare supper.

The other wife stands. Grabbing her husband by the ear, she drags him to the center of the room. He is afraid to look at either woman. His wife stomps on his foot, ordering him to look into her eyes.

She seems a stranger. Stronger. He is intimated. His wife has suddenly become forceful, implacable.

She orders him to stand still. The nude woman comes and stands at her side. Two women look at him with contempt. His stomach twists. He might run but is paralyzed by helplessness.

His wife slaps him. She tells him that he is now her slave.

Another slap. He learns that disobedience will be disciplined.

So it continues. After each slap, his wife instructs him. He has new duties and chores. Failure to perform a task properly will lead to punishment.

Patient, pedantic, Mistress Wife spends a half hour slapping and training her husband.

He is led to the dining room. The two women will enjoy supper. The males will serve. Both will go hungry tonight.

After dinner, the novice slave husband will receive his fist spanking. His wife’s special hairbrush will become part of his daily schedule.