Penis spanking should be part of your husband’s chastity discipline, where he is very rarely permitted to ejaculate and almost never permitted to have pussy. Complete pussy denial is actually best for him for various reasons, but I’ll discuss that another day. If you’re either done having kids, or aren’t ready yet, well that’s too bad for him 🙂 He’s there to satisfy your needs, not the other way around. Unless you have embraced a complete femdom life, you may need to keep that carrot of pussy-possibility (“pussibility”) dangling out there to motivate him, even if you don’t ever plan to actually let him have any.
A few reasons to consider spanking your husband’s horny little peepee include:
- putting him in his place
- enhancing his submission
- displaying dominance
- showing that you can, and will, do anything with his body that you want to
- punishment in general (we’ll discuss this)
- the physical pain/pleasure
- training and enhancing his acceptance of other bdsm activities
- subjugation of his manhood, both literal and figurative
- the conversion of his main source of pleasure into nothing more than a target for your riding crop with complete disdain for its horny throbbing need to ejaculate which you subvert in such a way that he actually looks forward to having his penis spanked simply for the stimulation of it.
- his orgasm. yes, you can learn to spank his penis in such a way that will make him cum! once you learn this art, i recommend you tell him that’s how he’ll be having all his orgasms from now on. that will cause him to immediately associate your riding crop on his penis with his sexual pleasure.
Now, mentally preparing him for such a spanking is essential. The key to it all is to make a big spectacle out of his erection and emphasize his inability to control himself, as follows:
- Keep him in chastity with no orgasm for at least 1 week prior to the penis spanking;
- Tell him that you are going to “inspect his penis.”
- Bind him appropriately – not only his hands, but consider binding his cock and balls to a fixed object so you know they won’t be moving around. Needless to say, please do be careful about this.
- Tease him to full erection. You may wish to use your hands a bit at first, but use the crop itself to make soft caresses on his peepee. This will create a direct pleasure association with your crop and his wiener.
- As he’s getting hard, verbally talk in explicit language about how his horny little peepee can’t help itself, how it loves to get hard for the crop, how his peepee likes the idea of a spanking, how horny he must be, how full his balls must feel right now, how his penis must be aching for some relief, how it really seems to enjoy the crop, and most important of all, how he just can’t help himself but to get hard for his penis spanking. Tell him he can’t help himself. Tell him he has no control over his penis. Tell him that you bet he can’t stop himself from getting hard. Challenge his very idea that his penis is under his own control, because of course, you already know it isn’t. Then, when his penis gets hard despite his own wishes, you will have shown that you are in control of his body – not him 🙂
How you spank his penis depends entirely on why you are spanking it. I have discussed penis spanking elsewhere, but the main thing to consider is that if you want to build him up to near orgasm, or actually let him have one, part of the key is to create a steady rhythm along a particular part of his penis.
- Start soft and slow, and very gradually work your way harder and faster.
- You have to gauge his reactions to tell how hard he can enjoy, but as his arousal increases, his pain tolerance does too, and the pain of your strokes will actually become a powerful source of genital stimulation that will give him an orgasm if you just keep a steady rhythm.
- Build up to a nice firm quick rhythm.
- When he nears orgasm, keep your focus on one side of his penis, going up and down its length, top to bottom and then back up and down again, back and forth, steady and consistent, and you’ll be rewarded with his squirt.
- Tell him this is the only way he’s going to be allowed to squirt from now on.
Once you have spanked his penis to orgasm the first time, you will own him in a very new kind of way. He’ll marvel at this power you have over him.!
Spanking your husband’s penis can be so therapeutic for both of you. If you’ve upset with him, you can make it clear to him in no uncertain terms. And, if he’s wronged you, it’s a terrific way for him to feel as if he’s paid his dues. It can be a terrific source of stress relief for both of you. It’s a wonderful bonding experience, wherein he learns that you have more control over his own body than he does.
There’s no need to touch his cock – I might go the whole ride without touching it once. I know, with 100% certainty, that simply coming close, teasing his belly and waist while my own hips quake, is more than enough pleasure for him in this position. How do I know? The proof is obvious! His every grunt and moan sends divine, unmistakable tremors directly into my clit. I can see the continuous stream of precum running down his dick. His body tells the truth his pride might never admit. His body tells me he’s happy, right here, exactly like this, nothing less and nothing more. So I keep him happy. I relish the view. And I grind myself to bliss…