In it I chronicled my impressions of an experience of being ‘volunteered’ to do a chore for a lady friend of the Queen’s.
She is a good lady and a strong and confident lady as well. I really enjoy her company and doing little chores for her is fun. And when I am doing them under the direction of Her Majesty, well it’s just delightful! Two strong and confident women gently bossing me around! It’s Like a Visit to Pussy Whipped Paradise!
So always try to think of things beforehand that will shine a good light on your Lady or one of the other Ladies who will be in attendance (hopefully a Lady that YOUR Lady Boss approves of! – Don’t make a BIG mistake here!). Then use your limited speaking time to bring up this story. Be quiet afterward and let the Ladies do the talking. If you can do this well, you will be sought after for EVERY gathering! And THAT is precisely what you want, to be endlessly surrounded by women who feel good about themselves when you are near!
The Ladies knew what to do and took it from where I had left it. I had no need to speak again which is generally a good thing. Men are here to do as they are asked, not to launch into some topic of their own and try to talk over the Ladies! And besides I had used my opportunity to fulfill one of the cardinal rules of Surrendered Husbandhood, I had honored my Queen to her friend in front of both of them. I could have blushed. Oh how I pray for MORE opportunities like that!
The ladies had all kinds of people and things to talk about and catch up on, so without any further instructions I simply knelt at both of their feet and started to remove the flags. They paid no open attention to me as I worked for several minutes until they realized that I was stuck on the very last knot and had spent a long time on it.
When they realized that I was all but done, Ms. Rachael said: “Oh look he’s been doing all the work and we’ve just been standing here talking all this time!” Then they both laughed, I blushed a little and remained docilely silent at their feet. I felt like this is EXACTLY how life should be! Women are to be revered, they should not be required to do lowly manual tasks if men are available!
Ms. Rachael went off to get me a pair of scissors to cut the final knot. When she left, Mistress wasted no time in standing very close to me. She patted me on the head and stroked my hair like I was her little doggie. I gave her back a soft and jovial “Woof Woof!”.
She laughed about it just a little. But I KNOW that she was feeling as warm inside as I was at that moment. I think at this point in the evening all three of us were in agreement about how life ought to be lived! Men were to be quiet, cute, and busy doing chores to serve women. While the women were to be served and revered.
I sometimes think my Queen laughs in situations like this because it is her fantasy coming true and she cannot believe or accept that it is now her reality. “My man is obediently kneeling at my feet and doing little menial chores for me right now! He is right where I have always wanted him and right where I have always felt that he belonged! OH YUM!”
I finished my task and the two of us left for dinner. Mistress invited Ms. Rachael to join us but she did not wish to go. I know that I would have enjoyed sitting quietly beside Her Majesty while the two of them continued their talk but, “Her Will Be Done!”
I drove us to a Thai restaurant that Mistress likes. I am not so crazy about it but again always remember…. “Her Will Be Done!”
The waiter must have been new. We had to ask him for glasses of water and when he came to take our order he actually looked right at me and said “What will you have Sir?” I said nothing and with raised eyebrows and tilted head, I looked over toward Mistress as in: “I defer unto Thee Madame.” Her Ladyship did not miss a beat as she instructed him: “I will be ordering first!”
OH MY HEART SKIPPED AN ASSERTIVE LADY BEAT!!! YUM!!! Power to the Ladies Right on! Remember, that unless there is an element of danger involved – Ladies Go First At Everything! They go through the door you held for them first. They go to the table at the restaurant first and wait for you to pull out their chair, they order first, etc. “Ladies First”
I felt like she had put him in his place and had reminded me of mine all at the same time. Her confidence and assertiveness in all things Female just seems to grow and grow! And I love it as does she! I know that she enjoyed it because she mentioned the incident later as well with a smile on her face.
Wonderful affirmation of the coming of age of a satisfying female led relationship!
To be of service to my Queen is wonderful!
To be of some service to my Queen AND her friends is delightful!
But, if I could somehow be of service to both my Queen and her friends AND all of their sisters around the world it would be infinitely better!
Let us all do all we can to usher in this new Millennium of Women properly!
My wife hasn’t done the laundry in forever. I do it four to five times weekly. I sweep and mop the tile floors and pick up and vacuum the rest of the flat. I make her coffee every day, and on the weekends make her breakfast. She gets massages either foot or full body four to five times a week. Dishes are always clean. She only cooks a few times a week. I love serving her so much.
Now that my wife is back to work I am expected to have the lunches made and breakfast served with a fruit smoothie everyday. She even has me helping her friend out with miscellaneous jobs. Her mother is very impressed which is a nice feeling for me.
I applaud you Jason for your role and position in your marriage ! My marriage of 14 years is very similar to yours. I was always pushing the baby stroller, dusting, mopping, dishes, vacuuming, ironing, grocery shopping, cleaning windows. My wife makes all of the major decisions in “her” household, and she is the absolute envy of many of her female colleagues. Most of my friends and relatives have gotten comfortable knowing who really “wears the pants” in her household. To be perfectly honest with you, I am probably one of the most happiest males in the world ! Some women are natural born leaders, as are some males, and some women followers and submissive as are so many males ! Husbands like you and I Jason are perfect role models for males in an ever changing society and world that females will eventually dominate and control. Serving my wife as a secondary/support role in our marriage has given her great assurance, that I “know my place” !!