Over the past 18 months my husband and I have transitioned to a full FLR. There was some bumps on the road, but I am very satisfied with the way things have turned out. He does absolutely all the housework, doesn’t question my decisions, gives me wonderful foot massages, wears panties only, shave his cock and balls, and worships me orally whenever I want for as long as I want. As you have pointed out many times, chastity training is the key to a successful FLR. Hubby went from several releases a week to our current regime of one very three weeks – sometimes four. This seems to be just the right duration to keep him constantly obedient and void of any free will. I often employ the use of a chastity device that I hold the keys for. When we started he couldn’t wear the thing for 60 minutes without complaining of discomfort. Through patience and sheer determination I have regularly kept him locked for weeks at a time. Denying not only orgasms, but even his ability to get hard is an absolute erotic power trip that words cannot describe. Our love making is the best it’s ever been. Without the ability to achieve an erection his focus remains solely on his pleasuring his Queen.  At the end of the month I will be going on a 4 day business trip. Hubby will be home alone. I am working on quite a long list of chores and some deep cleaning housework that will keep him busy, but I don’t totally trust him to not take advantage of the situation and play with his weak little cock, so I am going to keep it locked up the entire time I am gone. I will be gone during his fourth week of not cumming and I feel temptation to cheat and masturbate will be high, so that is why I have piled on the chores to keep him occupied and obedient.

Your duty is to act as a generous helpmate, humble and always subordinate. If you are angry or arguing, you have to let her win. If she says jump, you ask how high. You should not only be obedient to her wishes, both expressed and implied, you must also take an active role in making her feel like a princess, in other words, very special. Always.

Offer your assistance at every opportunity. If you see her sitting down, and are aware that she’s had a long day, sit down next to her, take her legs into your hands and ask her if she would like a foot massage. In the house, strive to take care of everything, including all of the housework. Its no special deal for you to make it your duty for washing the dishes, cooking dinner for her or removing the trash.

Without expectation of reward, wash the floors, clean the windows or wash her car. Do everything what you think that evokes a feeling in her of superiority and being served.

My favorite is when my servant husband surprises me with a romantic bath, serving me wine in the nude and tending to my every need. Its so simple to do, all you need do is to prepare the bath, help her disrobe, holding her hand when she is entering the tub and then gently massage her body with a soft sponge while basking in her beautiful glow. Nothing pays tribute to my beauty like seeing him with “my” penis full erect as he serves me in the glow of the candles as my favorite music plays. Then when he wraps me in a fresh towel while helping me out of the tub and into the bedroom, where I let him worship me with his mouth.

You must always start with the touch of a kiss. Your goal is to change your perception of intimacy to reach a point where you start to understand sex as a means of her pleasure primarily.

At this moment you begin your true submission.

You’re holding back your own pleasure, and she’ll respect you for it. Out of love you will encourage her to enjoy herself fully. Here comes another important moment: always ask permission to enter her. Offer her your pleasuring services and she will want embrace your naturally submissive role.

Soon she will realize that now she controls not only her own, but also your enjoyment. When she offers to satisfy you, you say “Yes Ma’am, please”. It will feel very grateful and full of love. But you must always ask for permission before you do anything that would bring you sexual climax. Always ask her permission to peak, and obey her reply. Let her embrace her complete control over your ability to orgasm.

Being forced to shave his cock, lock it up, and wear my panties effectively stripped him of his manhood and gave it to me. You’ve heard how a chastized man loses his male swagger and the macho behavior disappears. It’s true. My husband comes home from work every day and immediately starts on the list of chores I’ve left him. I no longer look at him as a man, but more of a maid or even servant. I’ll love him forever, but his manhood is gone to me. I relish that I had the power to do that and I wanted to take it further. I don’t want him to ever forget his role in our marriage. I wanted him feminized

Now for us, it’s not practical to dress him up like a woman in heels and make up. He has a real job after all, but I did find other things I could do to further expose his feminine side and deepen his submission to me. I disposed of all his male hygiene products. Cologne, deodorant, even his Dove for men bar soap. I stocked our bathrooms with COCO MADEMOISELLE soap from Chanel – for Women. It smells delightful and softens his skin. His deodorant? Secret for Women “Powder Fresh” scent. You know what they say “Strong enough for a man but made for a woman” lol. And finally, instead of a masculine smelling cologne (that real men wear), he now applies a squirt of whatever perfume I’m  using. Currently Ralph Lauren Pony Pink. I love giving him an extra squirt on the neck when we have a Saturday night date night.

Hubby adapted pretty well to the change with minimal griping. His biggest concern was what I did with the nearly new bottle of $80 Calvin Klein Euphoria that he just bought. I told him I hated to see it go to waste, but I couldn’t have him wearing such a manly scent anymore, so I gave it to a co-worker in the office “Rex”, who is known as the office stud and has a bulge in his pants to back that up. I could see hubby’s heart drop.

“Don’t worry baby – I told him you were allergic to it. He was very appreciative”

Hubby’s reaction earned him an extra week without orgasm – And I now find myself making up reasons to walk by Rex’s desk and smell hubby’s old cologne.

I work very hard. When I get home, I expect the house to be spotless, my wine glass full, and my husband to be cooking dinner. It’s not unreasonable. You’ll see. In a decade, this will be the norm.