I live the FLR lifestyle 24/7/365, with my husband subservient to me and securely locked in a Neosteel Arch belt. It has been a long and winding journey which I would like to share with anyone who is interested.
Deciding to convert our marriage to FLR was a major step, but locking my husband in chastity was in many ways even more important and has made my life exactly what I always wanted and deserved.
It has been a 40 year road to get to this point. I want to share day to day issues that come up and hear from all of you in this forum but I have to explain how I reached this stage of my life, I hope it is helpful so that you can understand a mean bitch’s point of view.
About six years ago I met a kind, gentle, considerate man and got married again. He was different from anyone I had been with before and also the first white man I had ever dated. It was good to have someone in my life but the marriage was not that really satisfying in any way. And then my husband lost his job and couldn’t find a new one, fortunately I became a partner at the firm around that time and could support us. But I started to resent that I was the breadwinner, that he didn’t satisfy me in bed, that he was basically a weak, indecisive man. It infuriated me that I had married a weak, soft man that I had to support financially.
So one day about two years ago I sat him down and told him that we were finished and I wasn’t happy. As I expected he cried like a girl and begged me, and said he needed me and would do anything to stay together. And I do enjoy his companionship, so I told him we could stay together but that he needed to make my life easier and take on a whole different role in our relationship. The truth is that with him not working and not being a strong decision maker my old bossy instincts had been coming out more and more, so it was just a matter of formalizing things into a full FLR. He fell into his new role pretty easily although some things were hard, such as having to ask me permission for everything and having no money of his own. But the first few months worked well for both of us.
But gradually he started slacking off, he would still badger me for sex sometimes even though I had made it clear that it was not going to happen, and to make things worse I realized that he was spending most of the day at home masturbating, which explained a lot. So having read extensively about successful FLRs I laid down the law again and he had to very reluctantly accept being caged in a CB6000.
After a few weeks in the CB6000 he seemed to adjust pretty well and stopped complaining, but over the next few months he started to slack off again. One day I caught him and realized the problem. He was able to slip out and pleasure himself. Unfortunately for him that meant getting a Neosteel Arch which has him completely and securely locked, with his dick pulled back between his legs and no access at all. If he behaves he gets briefly released once a week, and believe me he is a very good boy now. The belt has finally made him completely obedient and subservient and made our marriage perfect as far as I am concerned.
Bottom line I refuse to apologize for living the life that is typical for a successful man in my position. At home I have a “wife” who does all the chores and makes my life as easy as possible, who is completely dependent on me, who jumps when I say jump and who has to accept that I have an active and fulfilling sex life outside of the marriage. And the chastity belt is fundamental, because it is a simple reward and punishment system that keeps him in line and at my beck and call. So that is how I arrived here. It has taken a while but I have the life that I deserve.
You’re right, you have every right to want an obedient and subservient husband. You have nothing to apologize for, you financially support him and grant him release every week if he’s well behaved, that’s pretty generous if you ask me. It takes a strong woman to realize what’s wrong in her relationship and take charge of the situation. We as a society should encourage more woman to be as empowered as you.
Excellent you are training him well. I stopped my husband masturbating by also locking him in chastity and its taken a while to find the right device that is secure and neat. He is now locked each day in his steel cage which also penetrates his urethra which stops him escaping.
Thank you so much for your advice. Actually the ring in the penis is not one i would have, just the two on the scrotum. Therefore an erection would not cause any pain to my little penis. However we could adjust the size of the chain so that it prevents all but the very tip of my little penis from being seen. That is the main objective of my Wife and the other Ladies…they simply don’t want to see it while i serve them.
A mistress kept her man confined until he reached the period of not being able to get an erection. She would them let him out and tell him he could cum if he was able to masturbate and do it himself. He would try and to no avail he would remain soft. However a short time later after being out of confinement and given stimulation his ability to become erect would return and then she would lock him up again for another long lock up.
I have been wearing a cage for quite some time and was allowed two orgasms last year and my wife has indicated none this year I am allowed out to clean only