Jessica likes for her husband to view her as his Queen. They view their roles as not only Wife and husband but also Queen and servant. Jessica uses her creativity to make the most mundane tasks fresh and exciting within their marriage.
“My husband and I recently have come to a unique arrangement regarding our finances. The underlying thesis of our plan is that all of our marital assets belong to me. First, we have a joint checking account (with my name appearing first, as in the phone book) and my husband is responsible for making sure all bills are paid. The trick is that he prepares all the checks, but I am the only one who signs them. My husband is not allowed access to our checkbook except when he does bills and I take it after he’s finished with check preparation and balancing, and lock it in a lock box, of which I hold the only key. I also keep the only credit card, which also has his name on it and he’s only allowed to carry it when supervised or traveling alone and then for emergency purposes only.
My husband is allowed only $20.00 per week cash allowance, which I give him each Friday at the bank, and this also allows for some delightfully subtle public domination (my new hobby). On the Fridays he gets paid, I take him to the bank, have him sign the check in front of the teller, and then he hands me the check for deposit. I take out one twenty and hand it to him and several more for myself, which I put in my purse.
On the Fridays he doesn’t get paid I take him to the bank, withdraw only a twenty from the teller and hand it to him. The point is that he is not allowed to take money directly from the teller (even in the drive-thru I make him hand the cylinder to me first), and he’s never allowed to go to the bank alone. I always try and go to female tellers and I’m sure they’ve caught on. Many of the female tellers are young and I like to think I’m educating them as to how men should treat women.
In addition to paying bills he has to prepare a “Queen’s Yearly Budget” which is on hardcopy and different pages examine Her Majesty’s Assets, Liabilities, and Monthly Expenses. I will review each bank statement as it comes in to monitor hubby’s work, and he is to give me a quarterly report in which we will discuss the condition of the Queen’s Treasury and Her long-term financial goals. I like this arrangement because it leaves the burden of managing for our future on him but leaves all the power with me.
If hubby wants more than his allowance, I allow him to have a special
hearing before the Queen, which is held in our bedroom. I wear a long black satin robe, and black garter belt with stockings, and nothing else and sit on the bed. He will knock at the door and after I say “Enter” he will come in and kneel before me totally nude. I then say “Yes” and he bends down and kisses the top of each foot and says, “My Mistress, I have come to petition your Highness to allow me to have additional funds from Her Majesty’s Treasury.” I will then listen to his request and grant or deny it. If I deny it he is stood in the corner and whipped with a riding crop for wasting my time, and then made to kneel in a corner for thirty minutes to think about why he was punished. If I grant it he is required to kiss the top and bottom of each of my feet, and say “Thank you my Queen.” Sometimes I’ll condition my grant upon his putting his head between Her Majesty’s legs and licking her to orgasm within fifteen minutes, and failure will be punished as mentioned above.
The finances are usually the hardest area for a man to surrender over to his wife. Finances represent a man’s time and talents. When the wife takes over the finances, she is indeed taking over the last area of resistance. A man works at his occupation and earns a paycheck and that paycheck represents much to a man. For him to surrender total control over to his wife and allow her to make the financial decisions, it is true female domination and male submission. A woman who owns a man’s paycheck, owns that man’s time, talents and career. From here on out, Jessica’s husband works for her. He will now experience more and more dependence on her and he will become more and more submissive toward her.