I fit in by having her meals ready according to her schedule; helping her pack and unpack and ensuring her gym kit is clean and ready for when she needs it. Though I know my wife loves only me, nevertheless, I feel vulnerable knowing that I am a spent force if it ever became a competition with another man for her favors. At least this keeps me on my toes and vigilant in my efforts to please her and maintain her approval and well-being. My wife has me under her thumb, just where she wants me, loving and adoring her and striving ever more to please her as her servant.”
Her subtle domination stirs his submission to the place where it gives him the energy and motivation to do all those chores for her. While he is serving her by being her house slave, this gives him submissive fulfillment and to him that is as good (if not better) than sex. The brain is the greatest sex organ and even if it is unable to send the necessary signals to his penis, the mind is still stimulated by her dominance and his submissive nature reacts to her dominance, and thus it sends off pleasurable sensations and that takes him to a place of both sexual arousal and inner peace and harmony. Charles’ penis may not be able to receive the message but his soul receives the message and this is pleasurable to him on an emotional level.
Objectification is another form of Humiliation Play. Nancy’s husband Greg has the submissive desire that revolves around him wanting her to use him as a piece of furniture. He likes to be her footstool, or her chair or her rug, or even her clothes rack.
She incorporates this activity within their play sessions and even some within their everyday life. Nancy enjoys Objectification because it gives her a powerful feeling of control over her husband and this satisfies a part of her dominant nature. She also enjoys the fact that this activity takes very little effort on her part. Treating a man like an inanimate object has been known to do wonders in fulfilling submissive desires within some men. Plus this activity is a great way to dominate a man when the woman is not in the mood or does not have the energy to engage in a D&S session with her submissive man. She can just order him to be her coffee table, footstool or clothes rack while she relaxes and reads or watches television. In doing this, the woman is dominating the man’s psyche without too much effort on her part.
To the submissive male, this image makes the statement that women are so far superior to men, that a man is only worthy to be used by a woman in such a humiliating and degrading manner. It elevates the woman to Royalty and even to Goddess status in the mind of the submissive male. How can he ever be the equal of a woman who treats him this way? This causes him to feel humble and subservient. The psychological effect stays with him for a period of time after the objectification so he is primed to serve his Goddess in more practical ways. The submissive male likes to just lie there under her feet and bask in his weakness as she flaunts her superiority over him.
Another form of Humiliation play is Trampling. Beth’s husband Trey enjoys this form of being dominated. Trey slips into subspace when he is helpless under Beth’s feet as she uses him as her rug, doormat, bathmat or footstool. Whenever Beth wants to dominate her husband, she will order Trey to lay prostrate on the floor as she stands and walks on his backside. Beth’s favorite method of trampling Trey is to stand on his naked backside with her bare feet.
“I love the feeling of Trey’s naked skin against my bare feet. He tightens up at first but then I can feel him relaxing as he loses himself in submission. I will walk back and forth over his backside, from his upper back to his firm ass cheeks to the back of his upper legs. Sometimes I will add a different sensation for him by wearing a pair of shoes or boots. I’ve been known to trample him in high-heel shoes. He really has to focus as my sharp heels dig into his flesh. Trey must use mind over matter to overcome the pain in order to relax so he can slip into subspace.”
“In the beginning of our relationship, I though he was strange for wanting me to walk on him but once I began to do it, I found that it was erotic and fun. I feel powerful and sexy as I walk on my husband. It makes me want to dominate him in other ways. The trampling is usually our foreplay to other D&S activities. Once he slips into subspace from the trampling, I am able to do just about anything I want to him and he eagerly obeys my every command.”
“Sometimes as part of a romantic evening, Trey bathes me and when I am finished with my bath, I use him as a bathmat when I get out of the tub. I stand on his back or his buttocks while I towel off. I might even make him roll over so I can trample his front side. I like to stare into his eyes when I stand on his chest or grind my heel into his groin”