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Obedient Husband

My wife has taken to asking me to fetch things and put them away. She pretty much hasn’t put away a dish or get he’d a drink herself in months. If she wants a drink. She asks me to get her one. She says , “can you get me a glass of water?”. There is not much asking in the spirit of it although she does ” ask”.

My wife has pretty much dropped any pretense of equality in chores. I am OK with that. I have learned to receive these commands as little reminders of my new place in the pecking order. I look forward to the day when I can devote more time to being her house servant.

There is a part of us submissive males that realizes we want to let go of our ego, that it is actually better for us if we do. When the reality comes, it is like one part of our minds, the purer part says yes, but the ego itself does not want to go away. It sounds like a good topic for conversation with your wife: “What can we do to help shrink my ego and become content with living in that servant frame of mind?”

My wife treats me like a servant and insists that I wait on her hand and foot 24/7. She never allows intercourse, but sometimes she will let me lick her pussy and kiss her feet.

Your desire is my reality
I am locked and denied permanently since November 1, 2014
My wife has sealed my cage with epoxy adhesive
Now the only way to unlock (in case of medical emergency) is cut the locking post
Fortunately I can thoroughly clean my cage with hand shower
Permanent chastity is altogether a different life!
PIV sex, masturbation, handling my cock etc have disappeared from my life
My wife enjoys oral sex from me whenever she wants

It’s now five years since my cock had entered the warm,soft and thight inside of the pussy by penetration….
I miss that feeling so much! I still remember that feeling, but I don’t know, how it really feels!

One of my favorite ways to tease is to tie him to the bed, unlock him, slip him inside me, and ride him. He’s not allowed to cum without permission (ever) and has to tell me when he gets close. Even without numbing cream and multiple condoms he’s quite talented at lasting while I use him to make myself cum.

Personally, I don’t find toys nearly as satisfying as his real cock. (although, for his Christmas he got me a wand that’s changing that! ;) ) If he starts to cum before I’ve given permission, he lets me know. I stop and get off him, which usually is enough that the lack of stimulation ends the impending orgasm. Occasionally I don’t stop quite soon enough and have to turn it into a ruined orgasm. But it’s quite rare that he gets to either point. Once I’m satisfied and worn out, I lock him back up!

And do the same the next night.

And the next.

I think about a week and a half is the longest I’ve lasted unlocking him nightly just to use his cock before locking him back up!

It’ll be interesting to see how having my wand changes this practice in the future.

for me the frustration is more of not being able to get a full erection.

Even when she lets me out I rarely get to fuck her. Just the other night she let me out and eventually I tried to put it in her and she looked at me and simply said NO.

Talk about great minds think alike, I have just done exactly that for his Birthday surprise. He probably got no more than 10 strokes and pulled away, laughing. I must admit when I let him enter me it was so nice, I very nearly changed my mind I was enjoying the feeling so much, but a point had to be proven. They do need reminding from time to time just what they are missing when locked.

My wife is going through a phase where she isn’t much into sex. As I write this I have been locked up for 50 days and have not felt her warmth for that long. I’ve been teased by her hand a few times, but it’s not the same as feeling her from the inside. I hope she allows me inside of her again someday.

You’re right there! It’s been nearly two years since I’ve experienced penetration, I’ve almost forgotten what it feels like. My avatar says it all really: that is a direct quote from my wife. “Your tongue does such a good job I don’t miss your penis at all.” My cage keys are in a mini-safe with a combination which only my wife knows. Interestingly any time my wife notices the cage on me when I’m naked she seems surprised so clearly it’s not something she worries about.

Although quite rare, my wife loves to remind me how good she feels by getting me to just below the edge of cumming and super sensitive then slides herself down on me. I am not allowed to move. We hug and kiss sensuously while every once and a while she will slowly slide up and down a little just to keep me throbbing but not enough to orgasm. This goes on sometimes for an hour or so then she slips off, no orgasm for me, cools me down and locks me back up again with her juices still on me. She just feels so damn good. I am messed up big time for days, even weeks after that. Seriously messed up. Just thinking about her or a kiss or a slight touch and I’m raging hard and throbbing in my cage.

After being locked for about a month my Mistress unlocks me and let me “rest” inside her for about 30 seconds. She has a crop in her hand and if I make any thrusting movements she prompty whips my ass with it. She wants me to always remember how good her pussy feels . She also likes to unlock me and tie me to a chair. She will wipe her juice under my nose so i can smell her while she masturbates. Once I am soft she locks me back up.

I often get these when spooning with my wife in bed. They feel nice to me but she does not like getting poked by the cage as it moves with my erection. I have a smaller JB on order which should be too small for any erection. I’m not quite sure what it is going to feel like as the attempt is completely restrained.

My small cage will barely allow me to get even 25% of my normal hardness and I love that feeling of frustration, I crave it! One thing that I have noticed since being locked up 24/7 is how many times I have an attempted erection during the day. It also makes me appreciate the rare times when my g/f removes my cage and I can feel a full erection.
After more than 13 months in 24/7 lock-up
My nocturnal erections have subsided completely
Even my normal erections are not at all painful
My penis knows exactly how much to erect (to occupy cage but not strain)
I am most comfortable 24/7

 

Wife never allows husband to orgasm

We live a permanent chastity and denial that goes as follows. This has been going on for years.

Permanent chastity for us means I wear my device 24/7/365 including vacations, only being let out for some T&D with a cleaning and immediately locked back up when she is done with me. The longest I have gone without my device in years was about 8 hours when traveling. I haven’t touched my penis in years also except if unlocked for doctors visits or airport security. My hands are always cuffed when unlocked in her presence. Time between releases varies all over the map. Sometimes she will unlock me a few times during a week or go as long as six months plus before unlocking me. Typically, it’s 3 months or less. We have noticed that being locked with unlock for 6 months tends to make my libido drop. Not a lot, but it drops. We have found that some physical stimulation to my penis at around the 3 month mark keeps my libido strong. She still wants to try for 1 year which will happen because she wants to. I just don’t know when. I just know that it’s going to happen.

Permanent orgasm denial for us means I am never allowed to orgasm. Never. Haven’t experienced a full blown orgasm in years. She is very good at teasing me while I am locked and does it quite often. Sometimes I am unlocked just to experience an erection and locked back up again. Sometimes she will lightly touch me with her fingers or hand or lips for a little while then locked back up. Sometimes she will slide her vagina on my cock or just over head for a couple of minutes then lock me back up. Sometimes she will slowly edge me in any manner she wants with her body and locks me back up. Or she with do the same over and over and over until I am out of my mind then lock me back up. Sometimes she will ride me like a bronco and slides off at just the right moment then locked back up immediately. Or maybe although are rare as can be, she will make me have a ruined orgasm where only a very slight amount of actual cum just leaks out. No pulsing or throbbing just the tiniest amount dribbling out. Typically when that happens, I know I am in for a super long lockup afterwards. Whatever she decides to do when she unlocks me is totally up to her. She gets all the sex she wants if and when she wants it whether I am locked or unlocked. The one constant being that she will not allow me to orgasm. She dangles the carrot in front of me by telling me that maybe, just maybe, that I will get to have a full blown orgasm the next time she unlocks me. She has gotten me so close, but……as usual…… Sigh!

Our permanent chastity and denial keeps me crazy aroused for her all the time. I wouldn’t want it any other way.

Pretty similar for me. Locked 24/7/365 except for going through airport security. Birthday, Christmas, doctor etc makes no difference. My wife had to rush off today to help someone out and I shall stay locked for New Year. When my wife and I have weekly sex (pussy worship) I stay locked. My JB does not allow any erection. At night my body seems to realize the situation after a few minutes and I’m not kept awake, but after pussy worship it takes a while for the burning sensation around my balls to diminish because I’ve been so stimulated by my wife’s caresses all over my body except my penis ; I find that burning sensation the worse part of chastity.

Milking happens about once a month. Even so I’m leaking quite a bit every night. I’ve had three ruined orgasms in the last year, all inside the cage and one ordinary orgasm outside of it which was extraordinarily strong. I’d like her to unlock me more often but I think she likes the spontaneity of just deciding to have sex and is put off by using her combination to unlock the mini-safe and fiddling around with keys, so I stay locked.

We’ve never really said “this is what I’d like” to each other, things have just developed organically over a decade. We hardly talk about my locked-up at all, it’s just the way things are. I can’t really see them changing much at all in the future as she definitely loves not having to think about my orgasms during sex, she enjoys it much more when she can be self-absorbed and I do so love to see her thrashing around in ecstasy until she pushes me away with a plea of “no more!”

There might be a woman somewhere that wants an “it” to be a servant and that’s fine too. I assume you are referring to denial of penal penetrative sex and not oral or reciprocating masturbation. I do know women that don’t care for penetrative sex, but enjoy a fulfilling sex life.